When divorced or separated parents share custody, making joint decisions about a child’s education or healthcare can become challenging. Disagreements often arise, especially when both parents want what’s best but have different views. If you’re in this situation, you have options to resolve it without letting it escalate.
Know your legal custody rights
In Georgia, physical custody and legal custody are separate. Legal custody gives a parent the right to make decisions about education, medical care, religion, and other major areas. Courts often award joint legal custody, meaning both parents must agree. However, one parent might have tie-breaking authority in specific areas. Check your custody order to see what it says about who decides what.
Try to resolve it through communication
Start by having a calm discussion about the issue. Focus on your child’s needs and try to find common ground. Document the conversation by email or text, keeping records in case the disagreement continues. If talking doesn’t work, mediation can help. A neutral third party can guide both of you toward a compromise.
Use the courts if necessary
If you can’t reach an agreement and the issue is significant, you can ask the court to decide. A judge will review the custody order and consider the child’s best interests. You may need to file a motion or request a modification if the current arrangement isn’t working. Judges don’t want repeated conflicts, so come prepared with facts and a reasonable request.
Disagreements are common, but keeping things respectful helps protect your child’s well-being. Clear communication, understanding your custody order, and using mediation or court when needed can keep decisions focused on your child’s future. Courts favor parents who show they can work together, even during tough moments.
