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How to make fair custody adjustments for the new school year

On Behalf of | Oct 6, 2023 | Child Custody |

The Institute for Family Studies reported in 2018 that 18 million children in the U.S. have a father who lives in another home while they live with their mothers. The idea of co-parenting is a reality for many families.

With school well underway, many of these families may struggle to adjust custody arrangements due to the demands of the school year. Ensuring that these arrangements are fair and workable will benefit everyone, and there are a few things parents should focus on to make that happen.


Effective co-parenting relies on open and honest communication. Parents need to sit down together and discuss the upcoming school year, including important dates such as the start of school, holidays and any extracurricular activities. Having a clear understanding of these key events will help both parents plan accordingly.

Child’s needs

Another important aspect of making fair adjustments is to consider the child’s academic needs and routines. Different school years bring different challenges and commitments. For instance, a child transitioning from elementary to middle school or from middle to high school has significant changes in their schedule and educational requirements. Parents should discuss how these changes might impact the custody schedule and make necessary adjustments.

Parents need to be just as flexible and accommodating when it comes to school-related events and activities. Parent-teacher conferences, school concerts and other school-related functions should be part of the custody agreement.

Additionally, consider the child’s social life and friendships. The new school year may bring new friendships and activities that are important to the child’s social development. Parents should be willing to adjust their custody schedules to accommodate playdates, birthday parties and other social events that are meaningful to their child.


When making adjustments, remember that what works for one family may not work for another. Each family’s situation is unique, so parents should tailor the custody agreement to their specific circumstances. Flexibility is key, and both parents should be willing to adapt as needed, always keeping the child’s best interests in mind.

A new school year will bring changes for a family. Even when parents are not together, they should still work in coordination to ensure custody arrangements do not cause issues for their child. Putting the child first and working together as a team can make the adjustments much easier.

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